Frequently asked questions about Gay / Bisexual

Hi there, before protected anal sex, me as the receiver, my partner placed a some pre-cum on the head of my penis. Is there risk of HIV transmission from this and if so how long after the act should I get tested? Also is there a risk of HIV transmission from penis-to-penis contact? Thanks

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Hi. HIV cannot be transmitted via skin to skin (penis to penis) contact. If your partner is HIV positive then rubbing pre-cum on the head of your penis could represent an increased risk of exposure to HIV. An HIV test tests for the antibodies to HIV rather than HIV itself and it can take up to 3 months for those antibodies to appear in the bloodstream. We would encourage you to have an HIV test asap and a second HIV test 3 months after the time of suspected exposure.

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I had anal sex (I was the top) with somebody, and the condom broke – he says he does not have HIV. I did not ejaculate. I am concerned that I might be exposed to infection – is this the case?

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It's important that you use condoms correctly, to make sure they don't break. Firstly, before you put on a condom you should make sure it's use-by date hasn't passed. Condoms should never be stored near a source of heat, as this can weaken the latex. When you're using a condom, you should always use water-based lube. Oil-based lube (for instance Vaseline or lotion) can weaken the latex used to make

HIV can be present in the mucous lining of the anus; if he’s not wearing a condom, the virus can enter a man’s body through the end of his penis or the inner folds of his foreskin. If you're concerned about any sexual act, it's best to contact your nearest NZAF Centre to book a test.

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